A reading offers you help, feedback, validation, closure and so much more. This can apply to any and all areas of your life from relationships, career to problems or challenges. I connect with your Spirit Guides, who are always present, looking out for us and wanting only what is for our highest good. Spirit Guides can be described as our built in guidance system - we all have them.
I prepare for each reading with prayer and meditation while connecting with your Guides. All I need to connect with anyone's energy is their first name. I don't use tarot cards or any other tools, I simply tune into Spirit. If you are seeking to connect with someone who has passed, the process is the same. Even if you are not aware of your Guides or who or what they are, a reading offers you validation, answers and peace of mind. There are no limits to the types of questions you may ask in a reading.
Many times clients tell me they feel as if a heavy weight has been lifted from them after a reading. This feeling is usually the result of receiving answers and assistance from your Guides, the confusion or chaos is lifted. The process of a reading helps you find clear answers and in some cases the reasons for certain events happening in your life. Your Guides can also pass on insight to the people in your life. This can help you to better understand those around you or, in some situations, they may offer positive suggestions as to how to deal with difficult people or situations.
The purpose of having a reading can vary, many times a reading can give you a better idea of where you're going in life. If you have goals you'd like to attain in any area of your life, a reading can act as a road map, helping you to get to where you'd like to be. Many times validation and guidance from your Spirit Guides will help you to make important decisions in your life.
Connecting with a loved one who has passed can be a wonderful and emotional experience. There is usually a mixture of happy and sad tears. Having done thousands of readings I can tell you I have seen people's lives change after speaking with a loved one who has passed, even those who have taken their own lives.
There is something very powerful in communicating with someone you've lost. Many find closure, peace and even answers to questions they did not have time to ask before the person died. Those in spirit give you confirmation in so many different ways that it is really them you are speaking with during a reading. Keep in mind, when connecting with those on the other side they no longer have earthly feelings - they do not worry, fear, harbor ill will or suffer from any sort of physical ailments including addictions. Your loved one is not exactly the same after leaving earth and the physical body. Their energy is a bit different, they are same soul or person in most respects, but not the same energy.
Most of us tend to assign OUR earthly feelings to those that have passed. For example one of my regular clients is an elderly woman who has lost her husband and two sons. During her reading she felt that if we/I did not acknowledge just about everyone close to her that had passed, that they would be "mad" or "resentful." There are no such emotions from those that have passed. Those feelings that she was projecting onto those that she had lost were her own feelings in this life and they simply did not apply to those in the afterlife.
During a recent reading with a woman who wanted to contact her mother on the other side, the woman insisted that the person or spirit coming through could not be HER mother since her mother was not a happy or very kind person in this life. The spirit that I was hearing (the client's mom) was very happy, peaceful and in a state of looking back at or reviewing her life, including the mistakes she had made. There was an overwhelming feeling of joy that I felt coming from this woman's mother who had passed. As the reading went on this client's mother gave positive proof that it was indeed the client's mother that she was communicating with by reminding my client of a few childhood events only her Mother would have recalled.
The other side, heaven or what ever you choose to call it, is not like this earthly existence. There are no mundane tasks like paying for car insurance, getting the kids from soccer and family squabbles. Those that have passed will come through to me as they were in this life yes, but they do not carry earthly baggage with them once they leave the physical body.
One woman who came through at a reading was the grandmother of my client and she insisted that I point out to her granddaughter that she was wearing an apron. The grandmother also insisted that I point out that this apron WAS NOT the kind that just covers you from the waist down, but rather the kind that covers your upper body as well! This was very important to her and my client knew right then that the communication was indeed with her grandmother, for she had many, many aprons of this kind and was hardly ever seen not wearing one!
We live such busy lives so it's understandable that at times it's hard for clients to recall names or places that those who have passed may bring up. On occasion while speaking with someone who has passed, they will ask the client, "Well do you remember this picture or the time we went here or there"? In the moment many times people just can't recall small details. That's why I strongly suggest that when this happens, that you take a few days and really consider the information that has come across, give it time to sink in.
As an example, I was doing a reading, connecting with a client's aunt to whom she was very, very close. The aunt came through very quickly and was very excited to "speak," be heard and communicate with her favorite niece. The aunt kept showing me a picture (in my mind's eye) of her with an old fashioned scarf on her head. She said the scarf was to keep her hair from getting blown all over the place. The scarf was very much of the 50s or 60s era style. I passed this information on to my client, her niece, who just shook her head and said she had no idea what that meant and could not recall seeing her aunt with such a scarf on when she was alive.
A few days later, this client called me up to tell me she understood what her aunt was talking about! She was at home, going through some old scrapbooks when she was compelled to look in a box of pictures that had not been placed in the book yet (don't we all have boxes like that!). She looked through the box and found a picture of her aunt with her husband at that time. The aunt was wearing a scarf on her head. The couple had gone on a motorcycle ride (hence the need for the scarf) and the aunt had written this on the back of this photo along with the comment that it was one of the happiest days of her life.
I have had the ability to communcate with my Spirt Guides and those who have passed since I was a teenager. Somewhere along the way I realized how easy and simple it was and is to speak with animals. No matter their shape or size!
One of my first such encounters was with our family cat as she told me she was getting ready to leave her body. Of course I was very sad but let her know that it was ok. I also told her how much I appreciated her letting me know she was leaving, which gave me a chance to tell her how much I loved her and to say good-bye.
I realized the depth of my ability to communicate with animals after a long career in the horse industry. Although most of my work is with people, it brings me great pleasure to speak with animals of all kinds. Animals have such a wonderful simplicity to them that is always surprisng and refreshing. Animals really do say what they think and are very willing to offer reasons as to certain behaviors. Many of those behaviors can cause us humans unwanted stress and worry.
SInce most animal lovers like myself have had many pets over the years, it is very common for those pets that have passed to make themselves known during a session with a pet you have now.
When it comes to communicating with animals and people, energy is energy and that is what we are. Even when an animal or a person leaves the physical body, their soul is still very much alive, so for me, its just as easy to speak with an animal that is alive as one that has passed on. That is assuming the animal has not reincarnated.
A psychic reading with your pet can give you insight to the animal's past, habits or reasons as to why they do what they do. Many times during a reading I can explain to the pet why it's not a good idea to keep repeating negative behaviors like jumping the fence or chasing the cat.
More often than not, once the animal understands why we would like them to stop a certain habit they are more than happy to do so.
If you are wondering if a psyhic reading with you're pet can be of assistance, feel free to call or send me an e-mail. Since every situation and every animal is unique, I'll be happy to let you know if I can help.
There are many different reasons a Spirit and/or their energy may be causing problems in your home. You might be surprised to know that this sort of activity is rather common. The experience varies from being woken up at the same time every night, to hearing whispering to having felt as though something is touching your face.
Every house clearing is different, sometimes the Spirit is seeking to be acknowledged, other times the Spirit may be a loved one who has passed and wants to let you know that they are okay. There have also been instances when a previous owner of a home is still present in Spirit form, sometimes this is out of an obligation. During one clearing, an older woman in Spirit had a difficult time leaving the home since she was there to be a caretaker to an older man. Both had long since passed on, but she was sure she still had to take care of him. I spoke with her for a rather long time and finally, she understood, which allowed her to be on her way.
Sometimes the Spirits in your home are related to the land the home is built on. We have a great deal of history here in Las Cruces, NM and a lot of it is tied to Native Americans. Back in the day, the land itself was the life blood for so many. Just because a soul has left the physical body does not necessarily mean they leave this earth, as you may now know.
In some circumstances, it can be very helpful to tell the energy to leave your home, claim your space, that they are disturbing you and are not wanted.
I do not guarantee that the energy will leave - No one person has that kind of control, no matter what they may promise, I communicate with it, see why its there, what it wants and then empower the person living in the space to interact with it in a different way. Many times once it is acknowledged, it's message received - it leaves for its purpose is complete.
The energy is there for a reason - that is what I do, figure out what is going on and why. I do use sage to clear energies and a few other things to clear the space. Many times people are afraid to claim their space and tell the energy to leave thinking that there may be retaliation by the energy, I have never seen that happen, except in a bad movie:)
During a house clearing, I also seek to empower you, to assist you to take back your home and your peace of mind. This is simpler than it may sound and I'm happy to pass on the information. Having peace in your own home is invaluable.
E-mail readings can be a great tool, especially if your schedule is packed and find it difficult to find the time to make an appointment. Turn around time on most readings is 48 hours depending on my schedule. I record all e-mail readings and will then e-mail you the audio as a file - the recording is included in the price. If you would like to connect with someone who has passed, I strongly suggest a phone, Skype or in-person reading since those on the other side like to have a two-way conversation. You can ask 6 to 9 questions for your reading and you are free to ask anything you like, about any area of your life or anyone person. I can tell you from years of experience, Spirit Guides do like to talk and the information passed on is extensive.
Before each reading, whether it's in person or via E-mail, I do a prayer and meditation, tapping into your energy and your Spirit Guides, who always have your highest good in mind. All I need to connect with anyone is their first name, that is how I connect with Spirit.